I found tenderbang after scrolling through a thread on a private forum about apps that don’t waste your time. Someone casually mentioned it, said it doesn’t overpromise but actually works. I didn’t expect much but figured why not. The signup took less than five minutes, and the profiles didn’t look fake or overly edited. Within a day, I was messaging with someone in my neighborhood. We met a few days later—nothing awkward, no pressure. Just two adults who knew what they wanted. We still talk now and then. It’s been worth keeping in my rotation. The fact that it cuts out all the games is honestly a huge relief.